Unanswered questions
Is there such a thing as the right time to break up with someone who's wrong for you?
Are there any proper moments to let go?
And, even if they exist, do we really act upon them?
It would be so useful if we could learn how to coordinate the heart and the mind to act as one, not differently, with so many mixed signals.
If we could acknowledge the bad signs from the early beginnings.
If we could stop deceiving ourselves with wishful thinking, secretely believing that hope and kindness and a little love could touch a dead heart.
If we would constantly remember that, in order to function, any relationship has two parts, two bodies, two hearts. And only one can't do miracles for both of them.Unfortunately.
If we could act rapidly and remove the bad weed as soon as we feel it. If, if, if......so many 'if's.
And, most importantly, it would be damn useful to have a magic pill for these moments when we are forced to let go, something able to erase all our thoughts and feelings, something to make us fall asleep and only wake up later, much later, when all the damage is gone and the current nighmare has become just a funny memory or a semi-sad question mark buried in our past. When we can breath again.
How would our lives look like then? Without all the ridiculous amount of unnecessary tears, and broken dreams, and lost ilusions. Somehow, I'm having troubles picturing it....
Are there any proper moments to let go?
And, even if they exist, do we really act upon them?
It would be so useful if we could learn how to coordinate the heart and the mind to act as one, not differently, with so many mixed signals.
If we could acknowledge the bad signs from the early beginnings.
If we could stop deceiving ourselves with wishful thinking, secretely believing that hope and kindness and a little love could touch a dead heart.
If we would constantly remember that, in order to function, any relationship has two parts, two bodies, two hearts. And only one can't do miracles for both of them.Unfortunately.
If we could act rapidly and remove the bad weed as soon as we feel it. If, if, if......so many 'if's.
And, most importantly, it would be damn useful to have a magic pill for these moments when we are forced to let go, something able to erase all our thoughts and feelings, something to make us fall asleep and only wake up later, much later, when all the damage is gone and the current nighmare has become just a funny memory or a semi-sad question mark buried in our past. When we can breath again.
How would our lives look like then? Without all the ridiculous amount of unnecessary tears, and broken dreams, and lost ilusions. Somehow, I'm having troubles picturing it....
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